The tree is uprooted and its life is over, yet the surrounding grass is essentially undisturbed. The image reminds me of how we can experience disruption, sadness and trauma and the world continues to spin on its axis. We think that everything stops when we are dealing with some earth shattering event. We are shocked that others are dealing with life as usual. We are disappointed that people are still going to the movies and making weekend plans. We can't quite believe that our trouble is not impacting everyone around us. Hearing a terrible diagnosis, losing a job or a loved one or our savings, watching our house burn down, being involved in a fatal car crash, witnessing the decline of a friend, experiencing a painful divorce, or leaving a residence that has been home for decades are all examples of stressful life experiences. Any one of these can shatter our composure and alter our future. Looking at the big picture, knowing that Mother nature will continue her cycle (and the grass will keep growing) can help keep our circumstances in perspective. Being sensitive to those around us can be seen as a service and a privilege. The person in our company may be facing a difficult time and we may be the only one who takes the time to be kind.